Feel Good Blogging Challenge Day #3: How to Hitchhike (as safely as you can!)

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(Make sure you read Days #1 and #2 of the Feel Good Blogging Challenge as well!)

Today’s challenge is to teach you guys how to do something. I thought that I would teach you how to hitchhike.

I won’t lie, there is something both awkward and terrifying about standing on a roadside by yourself with your thumb out, hoping for a complete stranger to give you a ride, but I do love hitchhiking.

Now, before we get into this tutorial, I would like to add that I am not advocating hitchhiking in every location and circumstance (I hitchhiked in New Zealand where hitchhiking is common place and arguably safer than other countries.) There is always the danger that something will go wrong every time you get into a car, and I completely understand why many people don’t want to take that risk and don’t like encouraging others to embark on a hitchhiking adventure.

However, how I hitchhike and how I try to minimize the dangers are questions that people always ask me. Especially because I am a young woman travelling alone.

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Travel Packing: Backpacking Beauty Essentials

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The last thing that you want when you’re backpacking is to be carrying around a dozen heavy bottles of various potions. Equally, if you’re going somewhere exotic there is a chance that you won’t be able to find your favourite beauty products in the local street market.

When you pack your beauty products you need to look for items that will last your trip and that can also potentially be used for more than one purpose.

So, without further ado, here is my tried and tested list of backpacking beauty essentials:

1. Lush’s Solid Shampoo Bar. Shampoo bottles are heavy, and travel sized bottles are both expensive and short-lived. Instead, pack a shampoo bar. It looks like a standard bar of soap but it washes your hair incredibly well and lasts approximately 3 months. Double it up as your body soap. I love the Jumping Juniper scent.

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2. Lush’s No Drought dry shampoo. Freezing cold showers and dirty bathrooms can make washing long hair a nightmare. Before travelling I was a disciple of the canned dry shampoos like Batiste. However, cans don’t always last very long and I knew that I wasn’t likely to find a replacement in the markets of Bolivia. Lush’s dry shampoo comes as a loose powder which can make it a little messy, but it’s effective and lightweight and the bottle lasts forever.

3. Leave-in conditioner. If you cannot do without a hair conditioner, HERBAL ESSENCES LEAVE INuse a good leave-in conditioner rather than one you wash-in and wash-out in the shower. They’re more intensive and last longer as a little product goes a long way. Herbal Essence’s Beautiful Ends Protect Cream is hands down my favourite of all time. If you haven’t tried this product already, trust me when I say that you need – it smells amazing and leaves your hair blissfully smooth.

3. Talcum powder. If you’re going trekking and/or wearing trekking boots for long periods of time, talcum powder is a must. Good ol’ humble talc will keep your feet clean and dry, preventing nasty cases of athletes foot and other fungal infections.Talcum powder can also double up as a dry shampoo if you’re looking to cut back on products.

4. Tweezers. Necessary for plucking eyebrows and picking out nasty splinters.

5. Nail clippers. It’s a good idea to keep your nails short for hygiene reasons. I also find that keeping my toenails short stops them from painfully pushing against the ends of my trekking shoes when I’m walking down steep hills. Not to mention that it helps keep away those nasty fungal infections!

6. Scissors. For trimming hair above and below. You can also use them to trim your nails if you don’t want to pack clippers. Moreover, scissors are just plain handy and practical to have in your backpack.

7. Dual purpose moisturiser. You will especially need a moisturiser if you are travelling to a colder destination or somewhere with high altitude as the climate will dry your skin out. However, I recommend finding a moisturiser that can be used for both your face and body, rather than bringing separate bottles. My favourite dual-purpose moisturisers are Nivea Creme and Nivea Soft.

6. Compact mirror and hair brush. Get a small travel NIVEA ROLL-ONhair brush with a compact mirror built into it.

8. Roll on deodorant. Long-lasting, compact and essential. Aerosol deodorants don’t last as long and tend to take up more room in your bag. I swear by Nivea’s Pearl and Beauty roll-on.

9. Body mist. I ditched the aerosol cans and heavy glass perfume bottles in favour of inexpensive plastic-bottled body mists. They’re cheap and lightweight, cool you down in heat, and make you feel a million times prettier on a night out. I recommend the Boots Extracts Body Sprays as their fruit scents are refreshing and Victoria Secret’s fragrance mists (I love the Passion Struck scent), but if you can’t find them I love Soap and Glory’s Mist You Madly and the Body Shop Body Mists.

10. Razors. I never found razors that I liked when I was in South America. Most people have a particular brand or type of razor that they like to use, and it’s for this reason I recommend packing it in advance. I always use Bic’s Twin Lady/Silky Touch.

12. Hair ties. Take plenty with you – you will lose many in between lending them and dropping them on dusty foreign roads. If you are like me and have heavy long hair that slips down, use H&M’s hair elastics. I cannot tell you how good they are – they’re firm but stretch enough for you to wrap them around your pony tail several times.

PS: You can read my complete packing list of everything that I took with me to South America in a previous post.

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Travel Safety: Should you travel South America alone as a woman?

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Travelling South America can seem daunting, especially if you’re a woman. Before last year I had never been backpacking or gone anywhere by myself. Yet I travelled South America alone. I booked a Bamba Experience bus pass to give my route some structure (read my full review of Bamba here), but other than that I travelled solo. It took me about two months to settle into things and to find my rhythm, but it was the most incredible growing experience and I am so glad that I did it.

How safe did I feel travelling South America?

My biggest fear was the potential harassment from men. When you travel to non-Western countries you do so with an understanding that these places don’t always hold the most liberal views of women. You also know that you stand out a mile as a tourist, male or female, with your confused expression, map, camera and backpack. Being a tourist alone makes you a target of crime…being a female tourist brings additional vulnerabilities.

Let me begin by assuring you that for every one predator there are thousands of others who want nothing more than to look after you because you are a woman. Local people walked miles (and I mean miles) out of their way just to make sure that I got to my destination safely, and they were incredibly patient with my non-existent Spanish. Even bus drivers would come and check on me once everyone was seated to ask if I was OK. People become very protective towards young women travelling alone.

However, I did receive my fair share of unwanted hassle from men. By the time I left Peru, I was exhausted. I was sick of the looks and stares; of being cornered in city centres. I was tired of the comments and the constant looking over my shoulder. The few times I did go to nightclubs, there was always some local boy would hover around me until one of my male friends intervened. There was one particular incident with a boy in Brazil that left me quite shaken and scared.

It didn’t help that South America was my first destination and I was incredibly nervous. I think that if I went now, it would be a slightly different experience because I would be a lot more confident.

Whilst frustrating, none of this ruined my trip. If I felt unsafe in a town or city, I would make friends with people in my hostel. When a man was bothering me, I learned to shake my head and say “I don’t understand” in Spanish with a very apologetic smile and walk away without provoking anger. The male attention was tiring rather than threatening or intimidating, and the experience actually made me stronger and more independent – not more vulnerable.

And I will let you in on a secret, my worst experiences with men did not occur in South America. The most awful and worrying attention, lurid comments and threatening behavior have all come from British men in New Zealand.

The male attention was tiring rather than threatening or intimidating, and the experience actually made me stronger and more independent – not more vulnerable.

 

The second biggest worry that I had as a woman was that I was more likely to be mugged or robbed. With my young face (most people think I’m 18), lack of travel experience and appalling Spanish, I felt like I was a walking target for thieves and muggers. I couldn’t have looked more lost or clueless if I tried. Yet I was never mugged or had anything stolen from me in South America, unless you count the denim shorts stolen from a washing line in Brazil.

Theft from tourists is unfortunately quite common in South America, but if you’re a woman, I don’t think that you are going to be targeted any more than men. When it comes to general thievery, muggers and pick pocketers aren’t too worried about the gender of their victims. They just want a tourist who is unfamiliar with their surroundings carrying an expensive camera and a wallet. In fact, did you know that in the UK, men are almost twice as likely to be a victim of a violent crime than a woman? If the same is true for countries in South America, then men are actually more likely to be violently (not sexually) attacked than women. Many men would not want to be seen hitting a female tourist in public. So don’t think, “I’m a woman, therefore I am going to get mugged in South America, I shouldn’t go.”

Be aware of the risks, clue yourself up on them and take the necessary precautions – there is plenty of great advice online and from hostels on the ground. However, don’t decide to not travel alone because you’re a woman I promise you, you will have the best time!

If you have any questions or want any advice, please don’t hesitate to contact me. You can either leave a comment below or you can send me an email at dbwanderlust@gmail.com

Thanks for reading and I hope this was helpful!

Coming soon:

“Tips on how to travel South America safely” and “Why you should travel alone”.

PS: If you want to know more about the Bamba Experience bus pass, I have written a review on it in a previous post. The Bamba pass is a super flexible hop-on-hop-off bus pass that includes a set bus route and a variety of tours and activities. You can spend as long as you want in any one place, and you just contact Bamba to organise your bus or set up the latest activity when you’re ready.

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How much should you plan for your travels?

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Answer in short? As little as possible…no matter what anxieties you possess or how little time you have in your destination.

Despite travelling for more than a year now, I can still get myself in a twist when it comes to travel planning: What if I miss an amazing place?; What do I pack?; Is there anything I need to book in advance?

The night before my departure I will wonder why I did not think to create a list, consult endless books and maybe even create a spreadsheet.

However, the minute I get back on the road with my backpack, I quickly realise just how unfounded most of those fears were and I soon feel grateful for my lack of planning.

 

What do I plan before I travel?

I skim-read a travel guide and talk to friends to feel out which places I may want to see. I have a quick Google of good places to visit and check if I need to book anything in advance. I read some travel blogs. I make sure I have enough money. I book my first bus/plane/train out. I pack the night before.

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What to pack for South America

What to Pack for South America

 

If you’re going to South America, the prime problem is that you will encounter different climates, potentially making packing a tricky affair.

However, here is what I have taken and found to be essential. I have used every single item mentioned on this list – I hope I’ve remembered everything!

My bag weighed just 13kg at Heathrow Airport.

 

Clothes

1. 1 pair of jeans. Jeans are heavy but essential for casual wear. They’re also great when it’s a cold.
2. 2 pairs of shorts. If you’re a girl, make sure one pair is suitable for a night out as shorts are easy to dress up or down. If you’re a guy, one pair could be a pair of board shorts for the beach.
3. 5 t-shirts/tank tops/sleeveless tops.
4. 1 nice top or shirt for going out. Make sure it’s lightweight and versatile in terms of where you can wear it.
5. 1 cotton summer dress. It will be lightweight, perfect for hot weather and beach destinations, and they roll up really easily.
6. 1 pair trekking shoes or sports sneakers. If you’re trekking, I would take trekking shoes but otherwise standard sneakers/trainers will suffice.
7. 1 pair flip-flops.
8. 1 pair shoes suitable for casual wear and going out. This may be your trusty Vans, some lightweight pumps, or a pair of ballet flats.
9. 7 pairs of underwear + 2 bras.
10. 7 pairs sports socks.
11. 4 pairs of thick socks (if you are taking trekking shoes).
12. 1 zip-up hoody. I prefer zip-up hoodies as you can simply undo them when it’s too warm and zip them back up when it gets chilly. If your hoody isn’t very thick, it might be worth taking an extra sweater or fleece to layer up in the super colder parts of South America.
13. 1 raincoat. It’s worth having a good quality, well-lined one rather than a basic, cheap shower-proof jacket.
14. 2 long-sleeved tops. Necessary for when it’s cold and also to protect you from mosquitoes. (These have been an honest God-send this trip! Mine cost me just £3 each from Primark.)
15. 2 pairs lightweight trekking trousers or 2 pairs of leggings. (Perfect for keeping away mosquitoes in hot weather, general lounging around, and any outdoors activities. I got mine from Mountain Warehouse.)
16. 2 bikinis or pairs of swimming shorts.
17. Woolly hat and gloves (especially if you’re doing the Salt Flat Tour!)
18. 1 sarong for lying on the beach – much lighter than a towel (and yes, boys, boys also use them!) I double mine up as a scarf when it’s cold.

AVOID: anything white + materials that crease really easily (like nylon and satin)

Miscellaneous

1. Travel towel – definitely worth the investment! Mine is a giant one from Mountain Warehouse.
2. Head torch.
3. Travel Blanket – I don’t recommend buying a sleeping bag liner, but travel blankets are very handy on those long and cold overnight bus journeys.
4. Eye mask and ear plugs.
5. Mosquito repellent with a good amount of DEET in it – the best repellents will be those that you buy in South America itself. You will also find that hostels and hotels provide mosquito nets so you don’t need to buy your own.
6. Money Belt. Especially for overnight buses!
7. Spanish Dictionary (and Portuguese if you are heading to Brazil).
8. Adaptor. The European one works in South America. If you have multiple things to charge, try to buy one that allows you to charge several things at once. Mine didn’t and it was such a hassle!

Sun protection

1. Sun cream.
2. Sun glasses.
3. Sun hat. I don’t have one, but if you’re sensitive to the sun, you may want one.

Sleeping bag and tent?

If you will only be camping once or twice, there is no point in a taking a sleeping bag as they are relatively inexpensive to hire once you are there.

The only time you’ll need a tent is if you’re planning on constantly hiking and camping.

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Obviously this list isn’t perfect and what you decide to take will largely depend on the countries you’re visiting and at what time of year. So check the seasons properly before you pack!

Hope this helps you and leave any questions in the comments below,

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